When Your Loved One Is In A Coma... 08/03 by The Nadia Sahari Show | Health Podcasts: Your loved one is in the hospital in ICU, Doctors, and Nurses all have an opinion. Some say unplug, others say there is hope. They see minor changes, but you have hope and prayer, all will be well. Some say if loved one makes it, he/she might be a vegetable or have to relearn all things. What do you do?